Sensitive

Ok before we had Derek , Dom and I were sent to a fertility doctor. A very nice, very wonderful man. He did tests, gave us meds, sent us home to do as bees do. Five months we saw him, he tested every possible secretion that could come out of me (sorry) and was about to test Dom's too (sorry again) when I guess the boy sperm said "Oh no you aren't" and along came the two blue lines Derek was on the way.
Fertility meds are not fun. They are hormones that make you crazy to put it mildly and then you're demanding your hubby to " GET OVER HERE RIGHT NOW" then "GO AWAY" it's a rollercoaster that thankfully we weren't on for very long.
But I read of other women's struggles and I try not to pat their hand and say "there there here's what happened for us" or "don't drink Mt Dew after your IUV appt mmmk?" but I digress. (NOTE that is not all women just one inparticular that had a Mt.Dew after every appt and it just didn't make sense to me. Think healthy, think OJ know what I mean?)
One women who is sharing her struggle on the web with infertility mentioned how these car stickers are everywhere and it just rubs in her face what she is lacking. I get that. I think they are a bit over the top. I did see the flip flop stickers and thought they were pretty cute but just couldn't bring myself to go there.
I know people don't do this to be insensitive and I can bet you most of them are purchased by women/wives. I just cant see a man saying "Honey lets get these people stickers for the car" and have you noticed none of them are fat? Cant find the fat family stuck to any car..... hmm we all look the same apparently.
So I am sorry. I know that stings to see "family's" everywhere it's a chessy thing that will pass soon I promise. Meanwhile drink lots of oj...opps I promised I wasn't gonna say that.