Have you ever tried to push a boiled noodle across a countertop? It's not very easy to do -- there's no structure to support your pressure, so the harder you push, the more of a mess you make. Remember that today when you come across something you want to change or push aside. The situation won't respond to your pressure, no matter how great. And like the noodle, if you push too hard, you'll end up with a big mess on your hands. Let things take their natural course. In the end, it will be better for you this way.

CRAP.
This is just how I feel. So many things I am trying to PUSH my way thru and yet it's not working and I think "well I am not pushing hard enough" and maybe pushing isnt the answer. Damn the maddness.