"JARDNA": A new light for a new day

Yesterday I wrote a truly awful letter to someone that I am pretty upset with these days. It was suggested that I stop judging and focus on my own problems. I get it. Got it.
I guess I was focusing on one of my problems because when you hurt someone I love you are my problem.
But I took it down. It was written in haste in place of worry and anger. I am trying to be done being pissed off at this person. I can talk all day long about what I think this person should do and it's not going to happen. So I am done.

Today I am thankful on the eve of my anniversary that I have a wonderful husband that has stood by my side thru thick and thin.

My good friend Jenn said to me years ago that we might look at someone's problems and go gee whiz why on earth are they complaining about they aren't dealing with my XYZ problem and I would love to have that as a problem but we all have our own woe is me factor. What feels like a two ton bricks on you might look like a feather to me and vice a versa. I got it.

Today I am thankful Dominic and I have survived all that we have. I wont list them. I have been thru them I know what they are. I hope for many many more years with this wonderful man.

Ok and the Thunder Go Pink was the best. My aunt Esther joined us and had a great time. Joseph loves hockey. Today we are off to a birthday party and the Cheesecake factory for our anniversary dinner.