What I know for sure is NEVER say NEVER. This has been so true for me. You just cant say "Ill never" as sure as I do, it happens to me and there I am diong what I said I would never do.
A few people are writing down the things they say they will NEVER do and I shake my head and say "dont say it" as sure as you say it BLAMMO!
I know there are big things out there you might say "I'll never" for example have another child well I think I thought that too and have you seen him? yeah he's 2 now.
I am just saying becareful. Maybe I should say "Ill never have a millon dollars" and it maybe that will come true too!